My best advise;
Do what you have to do for yourself, align yourself, have
goals, have inner strength and, have the ability to support yourself in every way possibly, physically, financially and morally. Don't be the girl waiting for happily ever after, start making happy moments matter, by putting them to use. Independence starts the day you decide to grow up and dream while awake, seize the moment for this life of flesh only belongs to you, be accountable for all your actions instead of learning to point a finger, learn to wash your hands..